Baldness through the ages

Baldness and going bald is a peculiar thing. Thankfully I have a full head of hair with no signs of that changing any time soon. But baldness and how people deal with it can be a sensitive topic.

I have friends who are bald or balding, and they all deal with it differently.  Some are in denial, clinging on to their remaining hair with great gusto and denying the inevitable is coming. These are my favourite, as winding them up about their hair loss can be a great source of amusement!

Others embrace it.  Usually by shaving off their remaining hair and go full ‘mitchell brother’.

Then there are those sat in the middle. Accepting that it is going to happen, but not yet willing to do away with their hair for good.

But this is very much a fashion of the current time.  Over the years baldness has been seen and dealt with in many different ways.

1950s/60s

In the 1950s and 1060s there was less stigma around going bald. Generally people didnt shave off their hair by choice unless they were in the armed forces, so people embraced their baldness as the only other option was a toupee.

Although those that were a bit sensitive about it could often be seen sporting the wonderful comb over. A look which Sir Bobby Charlton had down to a tee.

bobby charlton

Baldness in the 1970s

The 1970s presented a challenge to people going bald in that the fashion was for long hair. So those who started to lose their hair on top but were part of the free love generation had to go for a rather fetching look….

bald hippy

Baldness in 1980s/1990s

Baldness started to become more of a fashion faux pa, shaven heads started to be come a more viable option, and products like this entered the market………

But like all things hair loss has been affected by technology.  Whether it is Caffeine shampoo promising to halt the follicle decline or more advanced hair transplants from the likes of Harley Street Hair Clinic if you are receding your options are now more varied.

Identifying my weaknesses Part 2

As a follow up to my post on identifying my weaknesses I thought I would let you know the changes I have made and how it is all working out.  By way of a recap the weaknesses I mentioned in the post were:

  • Not eating breakfast
  • Not preparing enough for lunches
  • Hunting snacks late afternoon
  • Sugar
  • Dairy
  • Alcohol

A few weeks on from my post and I’ve made some minor, but important changes to my daily routine.

I’ve started making a concious effort to eat breakfast every day. Generally this is either porridge or a fruit smoothie and I am finding this is helping in keeping my other cravings at bay. My hunting of snacks late afternoon often led to me feeding my sugar craving.  I put this down to a low blood sugar caused by not eating breakfast. Its all linked!

Whilst this has helped my mid afternoon cravings it hasn’t completely stopped them.  So I have started having a piece of sweet fruit, generally an orange, mid afternoon and have found that this means I don’t end up gorging on processed sugars.

I have generally brought my lunch with me every day which helps as I can be more thought out in what I am consuming.  Left overs from last nights dinners, soups and salads are my staples. Going good on this one.

Dairy is now limited to my porridge and coffee so I am happy with my consumption levels.

Alcohol…..still working on. I’ve undoubtedly had more dry days than in the month prior to my post but I am still a sucker for a cold beer. Don’t get me wrong, I am no alcoholic.  I’m talking about a beer or two in the evening as I wind down. A much more healthy approach than abstaining all week then gorging at the weekend, but I still think I could cut a few of them out.

I will check back in in a few weeks and let you know how I am getting on.

Going pre-owned

Its always nice to have something new.  To have something fresh out of the package.  Whether its clothes, jewellery, cars, furniture or anything else that ‘new feeling’ is always nice.

But this feeling comes at a premium and new is never the best way to get value.  Some notable exceptions aside, the act of opening the packaging or walking out of the shop makes the item immediately drop in value.

The worse example of this is cars. Drive a new car off the forecourt and you are immediately thousands of pounds worse off.

After the harsh realities of the financial markets over the past 8 or so years people are starting to realise that it is prudent to look beyond new. Whether that’s through established site like Ebay, or local market places created on Facebook owning something that is pre-owned not longer holds the stigma it once did.  And in many ways it has become a badge of honour to be seen as thrifty and a bargain hunter.

And as I get older (and wiser?) I’m starting to think its time I thought about going pre-owned a little more often. I’ve always been the prudent sort but when it came to clothes and fashion I could never see beyond new.  The thought of wearing an item which once belonged to somebody else just seemed a bit dirty.

That changed recently when I started looking at high end watches as a little gift to myself. With purchases of this expense, you start to take more notice of the cost.  It’s an item that I want to hold its value so a pre-owned watch is a serious consideration so long as it has been well looked after. I can avoid any immediate depreciation and still end up with a quality product.

I’m still a little way from going into my local charity shop to do my clothes shopping, but this purchase could be my first step to going pre-owned so who knows, maybe one day soon.

Life on the borderline

We all know an introvert.  The quite one who doesn’t engage until you know them well. Often quiet, understated, and thoughtful. We all also know an extrovert. Confident, loud, overstated and the centre of attention (or looking to be).

But what about the people who live on the borderline? Chameleon like in their switching of roles dependant on the company and the situation. That’s where I find myself.  Firmly on the borderline between I and E.

I’d never really thought about it until until I took the Myers Brigg’s personality profile as part of my job.  The system gives you a four letter code for your personality and working style based on four spectrum. The first is the I-E spectrum signifying Introvert and Extrovert personality types.

I came out as an ISTJ or ESTJ, bang on the I and E borderline.  That was a few years ago and I often think about it and my behaviour in situations and I think it is an accurate assessment of that area of my personality.

There are times when I like to be centre of attention and the life and sole of the party, and times when I come across as introverted and quiet in the presence of others. I am more than happy to stand on stage and perform in certain situations, and in others I will take a back seat and blend into the background.

I think a lot about what affects it.  The only thing so far I can come up with is the company I am in.  In the presence of assertive extroverts I take a back seat. Surrounded by more introverted types and the extrovert in me comes out.

Its a curious one as I don’t really feel like either. I am happy, although not always comfortable, being centre of attention, but equally enjoy my quiet time and alone time just as much. I guess that’s just life on the borderline.

 

Are shorts acceptable for an office?

I addition to the make summer footwear dilemmas, as the warmer weather hopefully approaches there is another dilemma I have never come to a conclusion on.  Are shorts acceptable office wear?

For those of us not lucky enough to work in an air conditioned space, the thought of sitting there in our jeans as the temperature starts to increase is not a particularly appealing one. Overheating in those regions is not pleasant!

But surely turning up to an office in shorts just makes you look like a little boy on ‘bring your kids to work day?’ Or alternatively like you think you work at some Silicon Valley start up and long to sit on a bean bag?

Case in point below. Left; young boy. Middle; please no. Right; maybe.

men in shorts at work
Image courtesy of NY Times

AN call me old fashioned.  But it becomes difficult to asset any authority over a situation when sat there with you legs exposed and flip flops on.  Maybe that is just me getting used to it though.

So, what do you think? Acceptable office wear, or something to be avoided?

The age of denim as acceptable workwear

Admittedly I work in a creative industry.  But it would appear to me that we have officially entered into the age where jeans are now considered acceptable work wear.

Partially driven by a more flexible overall approach to work clothing by society, partially by an improvement in the quality and variety of jeans now available on the market, denim is now a stable of the business wardrobe.

Of course different industries will take a while to adopt this and I don’t think we will see bankers wearing their jeans to work anytime soon, but it has become that common place that it is only a matter of time.

Obviously not all jeans are created equal, so there is a need to ensure they are suitable.  And it is also situation dependant. I wouldn’t expect to wear my jeans to an uber important meeting, or when the rest of the room will be in suits.

However a smart pair of quality jeans, coupled with a crisp shirt and blazer is now as appreciated as a well fitted suit, and I’m all for it.

man in jeans and blazer
Disclosure: this is not me!

Adding a bit of colour this summer

Summer is a great time for adding a bit of colour into our lives.

One of my favourite trends which has come about in recent years which helps me do this is coloured chinos.  In years gone by your options for leg wear were generally black, brown or blue.  But in the past 5 years coloured trousers have become standard issue to those wanting to stand out a little.

Red is my staple.  In any shade other than the pink variety (too far!) But there are some great blues out there and I might give green a go this year too.  Obviously you have to couple it with something a bit more plain on top to avoid looking like a multicoloured cacophony but with a plain black/white t-shirt and blazer combo it can be a great look.

Give it a go!

coloured chinos

Taking a Zuckerberg approach to workwear

Mark Zuckerberg is a very, very rich man. $37.5 Billion worth of rich.

Yet every photo you see of him he is in the same, plain grey t-shirt. Surely a man of his wealth can afford a bit more diversity to his wardrobe?

Image courtesy of the independent
Image courtesy of the independent
Image from Facebook
Image from Facebook

Well, of course he can. According to Mr Zuckerberg there is a method in his madness. In his words, “I really want to clear my life to make it so that I have to make as few decisions as possible about anything except how to best serve this community,”.

While this may seem a bit of an exaggerated view of his responsibilities, I’ve read of a number of other people following this approach and have a ‘uniform’ for work.  It does strike as evidence Zuckerberg is somewhere in the autism spectrum, but I guess it does mean one less decision to make each day.

So I’m going to give it a go……sort of.  I’m not going as far as having  a rail of the same tshirt, but I am limiting my work wardrobe.  For the coming summer period I have a number of plain tshirts (white,grey, black), a couple of pairs of trousers, and a couple of blazers.  This will make up my work wardrobe and so my choices will be severely limited, even if not quite so much as Mr Facebook.

If it works, maybe I will adopt it for Autumn, Winter too.

Why I don’t buy expensive clothes

I’ve stopped buying expensive clothes.  Don’t get me wrong, I’m not a Primark regular either, but I’ve just decided the real high end stuff just doesn’t represent good value anymore.

It’s not because the quality of the clothes has changed at all, it hasn’t.  But it is primarily because of the way fashion trends behave these days.

Aside from some wardrobe staples, a piece of clothing rarely stays current for more than a year, which means in real terms a single season.  So even if you are being generous and saying two years, or two seasons, you are talking about a piece of clothing having a possible 6 month lifespan.

So you may be talking 30-50 wears for a piece of clothing before it is out dated, never to be worn again.  With this in mind it is easy to equate the cost of clothing back to a price per wear and judge the value.

If you are only getting 30 wears out of a piece of clothing before you don’t plan on wearing it again, what price represents good value?  Too cheap and you wont get 30 wears. Too expensive and you don’t get the value and whilst the clothes might still be in perfect condition, you are going to wear them anymore regardless.

So now I aim middle of the road.  Good enough to maintain quality during its viable lifetime, but not expensive I will never get the value out of the cost.

Summer footwear dilemmas

As summer approaches I’m faced with a familiar dilemma around footwear as a male.

Whilst some women may rejoice at the thought of striding around in open toe sandals and strappy heels. Us men (if you are like me) are face with a raft of unappealing or uninspiring choices.

Flip-flop a flop. Even the most preened of men leaves their feet till last (and by last that usually means never). So whilst strolling down the high street with the wind between your toes might feel nice, 90% of the time, if that high street isn’t on the Mediterranean, it’s not a good look.

flip flops

Want a ride on my yacht? I’ve owned boat shoes, but I’ve never owned a boat. They are OK when going for a certain look but wear them too often and you risk looking like a Private Schoolboy.

boat shoes

Time for worship The Jesus sandal. Its not looked good since bread and fish constituted lunch.

jesus sandals

None of the above are particularly appealing. Leaving us making do with sweaty feet or a trainer which is more ventilated.

If anybody find anything more interesting then let me know.